The Todd V Show

In this episode, I lay out the Art of Game Manifesto, my complete framework for how I think in-game. We cover the three factors every guy needs to get laid (access, attraction and follow-through), the history of game models from Double Your Dating and Speed Seduction to structured and natural game, why plotline is the most underused tool in game today, and how to always know your next move. Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: https://systembytodd.com/ https://toddvdating....

In this episode, I'm bringing back a speech I did eight years ago that accrued over one million views on YouTube. Get ready to learn how to never run out of things to say to women. We'll cover assuming the burden of the conversation, telling stories that build value and comfort at the same time, why specifics make you charismatic, humor formats like setup-punch and the rule of three, and how flirting is an attitude first and a technique second. Here are links to the programs mentioned ...

In this episode, I talk with a Digital Black Belt student on his journey from beginner to abundance. Get started with Digital Black Belt: https://digitalblackbelt.com/ Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I talk about how to make game your own. Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, we talk about elevating your game with rhythm and delivery. Chapters: (00:00) Rhythm and Delivery (02:45) How to use pauses (07:25) Building tension in your game (11:40) When to talk faster (14:15) "Sneaking one past the goalie" (16:15) One exception... Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I show how proper delivery can take your game to new heights. Chapters: (00:00) Delivery: The secret sauce of game (01:50) The #1 delivery mistake guys make (05:30) Tonality... (10:25) Do THIS exercise (12:45) Cadence explained (15:00) Mastering eye contact and expressions Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, we talk about my go-to game style: semi-direct game. Chapters: (00:00) Introducing Semi-Direct Game (03:50) Semi-direct openers (11:15) Semi-direct premise (15:00) Other Semi-direct tactics Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I discuss how to go from Intermediate to Advanced. Chapters: (01:15) Defining beginner, intermediate, and advanced (03:30) The biggest mistake intermediate guys make. (06:30) How intermediate guys show interest... (10:55) Act like this guy (16:05) Exact examples. Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I discuss how to make your interactions sexual. Chapters: (00:00) Establishing sexual state (04:00) "Bedroom eyes" (07:15) Going for the kiss (10:00) "I make no apologies for my desires as a man." (14:30) NLP Explained (18:00) Women like sex. Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I discuss the power of doing direct game. Chapters: (00:00) Don't approach like this (04:30) Why indirect game works (06:00) Using indirect game with the HOTTEST girls (08:40) Being man to woman? (10:00) Conversations to nowhere... (10:45) Intuitive? (11:30) Some more constraints... (15:00) Indirect opener masterclass (20:00) Delayed direct? (22:30) Todd's opening strategy! Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questi...

In this episode, I discuss the power of doing direct game. Chapters: (00:00) What is direct game? (01:45) Being natural and genuine (03:30) The biggest mistake guys make in game (08:00) Start by saying THIS (13:50) Downsides of direct game (23:00) Indirect ways of doing direct game Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I touch on a cornerstone of good game–how to be subtle. Chapters: (00:00) Nonchalance explained (03:30) Overdoing it (06:15) It's the little things... (07:15) Honest signals (10:30) Simply don't quit. (15:00) What's my honest reaction to this? (20:20) You are the prize. (24:30) A story... Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I break down a new, ridiculously simple method for never running out of things to say. Chapters: (00:00) Intro (02:30) The "PMI" Framework. (07:30) Figuring out what to say. (17:45) Teasing in the later phases of game. Here are links to the programs mentioned on the podcast: Bootcamps and Immersions Submit questions to todd@toddvdating.com

In this episode, I break down everything you need to know about qualifying. Join me on a Bootcamp to learn game live from me.

In this episode, I break down everything you need to know about social circle game. Chapters: (00:00) Intro (01:30) The ADVANTAGES of social circle game (04:55) How to open in social circle game (10:00) How to create social proof in social circles (12:25) What to do if you've seen this girl before (14:15) How to open in social circle game (18:25) Best places to do social circle game (23:30) Indirect social circle game explained Here are links to th...

In this episode, I break down the repeatable thought process that I believe is the key to mastering game. A guy who develops the right mindset, routines, and learning process is guaranteed to succeed in game. By focusing on systematic self-evaluation, running small experiments, and refining my approach, I’ve always been confident in my ability to improve, and I'm going to show you how you can do the same. Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 01:15 - Having the right thought process 8:30 - Ask yourself th...

In this episode, I share some unconventional but insanely effective exercises to level up your game without even leaving the house. These drills are all about isolating key skills—like openers, push-pulls, and emotional spikes—so you can get sharper, faster, and more confident when it matters most. Chapters: 00:00 - Magic Pill for Game 01:27 - Interactive Game Exercises 04:38 - Surprise Openers Drill 09:37 - Day Game Dynamics 17:39 - Question-Answer Tease Exercise Here are links to the pro...

My advice on how to game without relying on alcohol. 00:00 - Intro and Listener's Question 02:00 - The impact of alcohol on both self-improvement and dating 06:00 - Personal experiences and strategies without alcohol 10:00 - Navigating bars and social dynamics without drinking 14:00 - Final thoughts on balancing a healthy lifestyle and dating

In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives. Chapters: 00:00 - Listener question 02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game... 07:30 - Does game work in today's world? 13:45 -...

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo 00:26 - Learning Game Solo 01:40 - Preference for Solo Game 03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman 04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues 06:12 - Wingman...

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd discusses the importance of asking the right questions to improve your game and avoid common pitfalls. He breaks down how to turn unhelpful, overly specific or broad questions into actionable insights that lead to real-world progress. Chapters: 00:00 - Intro & Bootcamp Announcement 01:10 - Importance of Asking the Right Questions 03:00 - Learning Game as a Scientific Process 05:15 - Types of Bad Questions: Specific & Theoretical** 08:30 - The...

Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point. Timestamps 0:00 – Introduction1:45 – Pickup Lines explained4:05 – The best way to tease6:15 – Subtlety…9:00 – The right frame ...

In this episode, Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction3:20 – A MASSIVE unlock for daygame…10:15 – Why you shouldn’t worry about bystanders in daygame13:45 – Qualifying Explained29:00 – Daygame Masterclass To take get coaching with James go to: https://toddvdating.com/coaching And to take advantage of the sale on the Mentorship Program go ...

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons. Notes0:00 – Introduction0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges3:26 ...

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics. Notes 00:00 - Intro00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure03:00 -...

In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas. Notes00:00 - Intro01:50 - Coaches Background05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 16:30 - Being high-value online21:00 - Achieving abundance25:30 - Improving your messaging game27:00 - Paradigm shift31:30 - Todd's game insights40:00 - Physical escalation on dates46:50 - How to respond to every text50:20 - Answering deep questions over text51:30 - Maximize the lifes...

In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example. Notes00:00 - Intro01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.Check out my comprehensive online dating course: https://toddoda.com/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to questions@toddvdating.com Ask questions...

00:00 - What is Bootcamp?01:40 - Student's experience prior to studying game03:55 - His massive game improvement09:05 - Most challenging bootcamp moment11:50 - His post-bootcamp experience15:30 - How he met his girlfriend19:00 - His advice to others on their journey in game21:20 - Being INTENTIONAL about gameIf you'd like to join me in person, my coaching schedule is at: https://toddvdating.com/coaching/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to questions@toddvda...

00:00 - State transference04:45 - How to kiss her (at the right time)06:30 - Bootcamp story16:30 - How to transfer sexuality to the girl20:00 - AMOG situationsCheck out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy, and highly effective: https://verbalgameacademy.com/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to questions@toddvdating.com Ask questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Da...

Notes00:00 - How are hot girls different from others?02:50 - The biggest mistake guys make around hot girls04:20 - Irreverent.08:45 - Don't do this...13:30 - How hot girls live their lives16:40 - Show social proof20:40 - What type of dates should you bring hot girls on?26:30 - Don't put yourself in this frame... Check out Verbal Game Academy, my course containing two decades of secret communication techniques that make talking to women effortless, easy and highly effective: https://verba...

In this episode, Todd discusses the challenges faced by Asian men in the Western dating scene. He touches on how to leverage stereotypes and overcome cultural biases to get the results you want in game. Notes02:15 - Do Asian men have a harder time in the dating world?08:00 - What about results in game?13:50 - What about guys of other backgrounds?16:00 - Assimilation.We have a PACKED bootcamp schedule coming up in cities around the world. Click the link below to grow your game exponentially wi...

In this episode, I discuss a shift in approach for non-sexual dates, emphasizing the importance of creating a dynamic where the woman is chasing the man. I also address challenges such as avoiding over-validation, managing physical escalation, and navigating logistics to increase the likelihood of securing a second date. Finally, I emphasize the need for a strategic mindset, particularly when dealing with more conservative or inexperienced women. Notes02:30 - Balancing validati...

In my 20+ years as a dating coach, I've seen a TON of mistakes made in online dating. In this episode, I examine the 3 most common mistakes and how to fix them. Apply these chnages so you can get matches with girls you ACTUALLY want to date. Notes00:00 - What are the 3 most common online dating mistakes?00:50 - Do looks matter?04:15 - Stop doing this in your bio.06:05 - Showing vs. Telling 08:00 - Messaging10:45 - Focus on THIS13:10 - Getting her from app to date18:10 - The ...

How did I, as an overweight 41-year-old, see more success in learning jiu-jitsu than I did as a super fit 21-year-old? The answers will surprise you, while also revealing powerful insights about improving your game. Notes00:00 - My path back to jiu-jitsu12:30 - My "why" (you NEED this!)20:00 - Trials and tribulations...29:20 - Massive improvement?35:00 - Your ego is not your amigo!42:00 - Mind, attitude, and coaching.48:00 - You might just get hooked...One of the biggest secrets of game is a...

Highlights James' journey in game will inspire youThe best way to see results, FASTLearn what to AVOID DOING in gameNotes00:00 - Intro00:48 - How James discovered game and how it changed his life012:50 - When James REALLY started seeing PROGRESSION26:30 - How James became advanced35:00 - Major lessons James has learned in gameOne of the biggest secrets of game is a simple one: Learn game from someone massively better than you. https://toddvmentoring.com/ Connect with Todd: Join Todd V Insid...

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com. HighlightsGaming girls who speak another languageHow to master your non-verbalsClosing despite the language barrierNotes00:00 - Intro00:18 - How should you alter your verbal game when the girl doesn’t speak your language fluently?01:00 - Think strategically02:00 - “The shoe is on the other foot”04:25 - Todd in Japan06:00 - A winning vibe07:20 - Non-verbal v...

VERBAL GAME ACADEMY IS LIVE! Everything you need to know about what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. www.verbalgameacademy.com. HighlightsStorytelling: A crucial game skillDisplaying value subtlyBelieving your own storyNotes00:00 - Intro00:25 - DHV without being tryhard?01:26 - What specific values?02:15 - Stop bragging.04:50 - You need to believe07:30 - Setting, interruption, change10:33 - Weave these inConnect with Todd: Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook Email questions to questio...

HighlightsDo insults work in game?How to use push-pullsHow to use negsHow to use disqualifiersNotes00:00 - Intro01:15 - Question: Compare and contrast negs, push-pulls, and insults03:00 - Push-pull 10105:15 - How to show interest the RIGHT WAY06:40 - Disqualifiers: BREAKING rapport?08:50 - The Art of the Neg Check out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.com Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook, email questions to questions@tod...

HighlightsDo you REALLY have to HIDE your agenda?How women view sexBeing directNotes00:00 - Intro00:14 - Question: Why do guys hide their agenda? Isn't sex a win for her?01:10 - Women like sex MORE than men, but...03:55 - You need to be INTERESTED6:20 - Todd's thoughts on direct approach8:30 - Direct approach frames Check out my program on EVERYTHING verbal game. What to say, when to say it, and how to say it. Verbalgameacademy.com Join Todd V Insiders on Facebook, email questions to questi...

HighlightsHow to succeed in a CORRUPT SYSTEMTurn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITYManaging time in a world of DISTRACTIONSNotes00:00 - Intro01:10 - Question: “How do I improve in a society with a corrupt system, nepotism, and bigotry?”01:34 - How to make the BEST out of dire situations04:05 - It could be WORSE05:18 - Turn CRISIS to OPPORTUNITY08:35 - Question: How do you manage time? What are your strategies?11:18 - Manage your ACTIVITIES, not your TIME 14:27 - Eliminating TIME-WASTERS

Highlights How to establish REAL value in your profileThe RIGHT WAY to have a sexual profile What NOT to send as a first messageNotes 0:00 - Intro00:49 - Bio #1 breakdown10:56 - Bio #2 breakdown18:56 - Messaging sequence breakdown

FREE Text Guide HighlightsOnline game vs. cold approachOnline game vs. social circle gameQuality, quantity, & passive results onlineNotes00:00 - Intro00:27 - Question: Which is better: online game or cold approach?01:28 - How Todd got into game04:15 - Online Game vs. Social Circle Game08:00 - Pros & cons of online game14:00 - Quality vs Quantity online16:45 - Which method of game is best based on skill level21:05 - Having threesomes: online vs. live22:40 - Get passive results

Online Dating Bootcamp: www.toddvonline.com/ HighlightsThe single most important game skillProfiles that lead to datesOnline game cheat codesNotes0:00 - Intro01:08 - Todd's personal INNER GAME philosophy09:48 - The PROCESS of creating a winning profile20:10 - Recognize your online game STICKING POINTS23:38 - Online game CHEAT CODES24:49 - Creating POSITIVE FEEDBACK LOOPS

Online Dating Bootcamp: toddvonline.com Here's the audio version of a recent YouTube live Ask Me Anything (AMA) I recorded on online dating. Enjoy!

FREE Text Guide HighlightsHow to be FUNNY on online gameWIN online game with blueprintsGoofy Game VS Funny GameNotes00:00 - Intro01:06 - Question: Can you convey high status in your bio while being goofy or does goofy equal low status?02:03 - Goofy Game vs. Funny Game 06:12 - How to be FUNNY on online dating sites14:37 - The pros and cons of being cocky-funny21:12 - A PERFECT example of high-value humor24:52 - Intentional vs. Unintentional Goofiness26:06 - Question: What are some ways to...

Read show notes HighlightsTexting girls during QUARANTINETurnings messages into DATESHow to NOT get catfished Notes00:00 - Intro01:03 - Question: How do I keep text conversations going for an extended period of time?02:03 - Issues with long-term convos03:04 - What your goal SHOULD BE06:52 - How to escalate from TEXTS TO PLANS09:50 - Todd’s “Phone Time” strategy12:40 - Long-distance relationship checklist13:38 - Question: How do I avoid getting catfished?13:47 - Todd’s experience with cat...

FREE Text Guide HighlightsGaming hot influencers & Tinder top picksYou need a POLARIZING bioWhy premium accounts WORKNotes00:00 - Intro00:40 - Question: How do I game high-value online women?02:23 - Customizing your profile to your TYPE06:25 - POLARIZE for hotter matches12:20 - Polarizing online dating bios17:33 - Question: Is Tinder Gold worth it?19:38 - Why premium accounts ACTUALLY WORK29:29 - Always TEST new things in game

Read Show Notes HighlightsSexting: High-risk, high-rewardRECOVER from bad textsCreating a HIGH-VALUE PROFILE Notes00:00 - Intro01:05 - Question: How do I convey sexuality over text without seeming creepy? I wanted to start sexting a girl but she refused. How do I regain my value and eventually sext with her?01:55 - SEXUAL texting05:30 - Sexting changes how she RESPONDS to you10:00 - Todd's sexting method14:15 - RECOVER from bad texts16:45 - Question: How do I build comfort and trust onli...

Read Show Notes HighlightsWhat you need to STOP saying ASAPWhy smart girls are the EASIEST to gameGo-to openers that HIT HOMENotes00:00 - Intro01:38 - Question: What words can bring my game to the next level?05:58 - Words to AVOID13:28 - Todd's game vocabulary15:40 - Talking Dirty 10122:19 - Question: How do I game smart girls? How do I calibrate my game based on her age?24:07 - Why smart girls are EASIER to game29:51- Verbally gaming a model34:43 - Gaming older girls37:28 - Matching her age ...

Black Friday Sale Linkssystembytodd.comtoddvmasterclass.comHighlightsHow to MASTER the art of shit-testingLearn FUNNY teasingSTAND OUT in front of the hottest girlsNotes00:00 - Intro01:32 - Question: In The System, you talk about giving girls shit tests. What are the best ways to shit test a girl?02:18 - Shit-testing 10107:09 - Use shit tests to CONTROL the frame11:00 - Making her laugh14:42 - Standing out to 8s, 9s, and 10s18:45 - Disqualifying, a game cheat code23:20 - RecapYoutube Videohtt...